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Glossary Term Siblings in Care

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Glossary Term

Summary

For many children, being in 'care' meant being separated not only from parents, but also from their brothers and sisters. In the 1960s, it was reported that over 60 per cent of children in care had been separated from their siblings, and up to one third were unable to see eachother after separation. Being separated from siblings caused emotional distress for children. The reasons for siblings being separated in placements were largely organisational. Many institutions only accommodated children of one sex, and even those with girls and boys kept the sexes separate as much as possible. Some institutions only took children of a particular age, such as toddlers' homes, children's homes or babies' homes. Also, siblings can be separated due to a lack of vacancies with a particular 'care' provider.

Details

The Forgotten Australians report remarked that separating siblings was a common practice. Often little effort was made to keep children informed about the whereabouts of siblings, with the result that siblings 'drifted apart'. Sometimes, siblings were not even told that they were related. One submission to the inquiry expresses the pain of being separated from family members:

Our entire family was ripped apart and we can never get back together. They split me away from my 1-week old brother and we never knew each other until we were old. I had cousins in St Aidans and the nuns never told me. I never knew my family. How can you get back together when you don't know each other?

Prepared by: Cate O'Neill

Created: 2 October 2009, Last modified: 10 November 2011